7th day of CNY - Unpost
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Same date last year.
The 7th day of Chinese Lunar year.
How wonderful the whole history repeat itself before my eyes.

I let you go and you took it.
I wont want it any other way.
Nothing should overtake family's priority.
Im not a bitch. I was not mad that i was not chosen.
It was how you executed it that pissed me off.

I watched Space Between Us with cky.
Last year Chor 7 was Valentine's Day and i spent it with him too.
Was it coincidence or that he was destined to be my saviour?

A lovely movie. Got me tear up when the gud bye scene came up. Im a sucker for these movies. Still nothing beat The Fault Of Our Stars.
I felt chocked up every time i wish to move on from what we had.

Moving on is our only solution before things turn sour.
Because that is the only way we can still be best of friends.
Dont ruin a beautiful friendship by our selfishness.
I could do it once. I can do again.

I dont wanna act all crazy on you. Behaving like a mad angry gf of yours when im not even one.
I dont want you to be all caring checking up on my well being and wishing me goodnight if you dont even wish to be the special man in my life.
Dont keep me expecting with your inconsistence effort.

I dont wish you to half trying not certain and doubting things. You dont have to pick up these duties thinking you have obligations to treat me good. I dont entitled extra good from you. And you dont need these extra pressure as well. There is alot of way to appreciate someone kindness.
There is a lot of way to repay kindness.

I cant even tell you what im angry with and what im not happy about us because we have nothing between us.

You have no responsibility over it. Now i even feel that you have no rights to know it. Because i no longer wanna share it with u. Opening up is a phobia to me and i chose you to be part of it cuz you were listening. You care to listen. You care to know.
But now i wish to just keep it close to myself.
Thats when i know the detachment is on its way.
Anyway... thats a great quality of you. You make people talk their mind. It aint because you specifically wish to listen to mine. Its just ur ability, a gifted quality u have in you.

Space between us.
Distance between us.
Is not just 45 min away anymore :(

You are a realist.
Im a dreamer.
You believe in certainty.
I believe in chemistry, choices.
You forecast futures.
I wish to live in the presence.
You seek for compatability.
I trust in efforts. Efforts! Consistence efforts!

If you wish for a miracle,
You must 1st walk the talk.
Dont just talk. Talk is cheap.

Time waits for no man.
You await a better tomorrow.
I dont think time has mercy on me.
Timing is a bitch.

If you dont see my values, lets not waste time.
Lets be okay.
Lets be fine.
Let the better days be upon us.

You thought that not deciding and making the wrong choice is a way to prevent hurting me.
You have no idea that what is happening now is hurting as hell too. Perhaps not making the decision is one of your ways to prevent things you couldnt handle or dont wish to face.
With that you push away happiness that could be happening. You doubted it.
With that you push me away.
Maybe u wish me to prove to you.
You wish to see my effort?
But i thought you know me. You knew i had give you the green light. But you are suspicious?

:/ im so tired.
Im not happy.
The song from Sam Lee Kao Jin speaks loudly about my feeling right now.
Let me work out my mind set.
When a leo falls in love, it is difficult to detach.
But i wonder how far is this love fetching?
Am i really in love? How do i measure?

What i was very certain then is no more concrete.
Leo is vibrant is attention seeker but its loyal.
The funniest part is when you even question a leo's loyalty. You question a leo's choice.
Hmmp.
Thanks for all the given time. I finally see the concerns you saw earlier.
They are very visible now and the shocking true is i started to wonder if love really mean accepting all differences despite loving the good quality.
I used to believe so long a couple fight for each other and work the differences away will go a long way.
U made me see from your point of view already.

Gosh you made my journey to attempt walking into 1st relationship so fucking harder than i could even imagine.

I can no longer answer all the uncertainties.
Tinder is working suddenly after being page damage or something. Funny dao...its like a perfect time for me to divert the attention.

I care about you as i care about my good friends.
You know where to find me if you need me.
I just need to work out my mind failure in making decision. I can access very nicely as position matters. I couldnt treat you good as a bf. But i can still treat you well as a great friend. I can.

Dont you ever thought that being distance from me will be a cure to my torture. I will hate you if you do that to me. Cuz u add misery to all the miseries that are happening.
My 1st crush stay in my mind for a very long time (infact every crushes, they stay for years) until i found myself liking someone better. You could be half globe away from me but i could be thinking of you 24/7 for months.
This is a leo mental torture of which distance and time cant cure unless we work out a solution.

If you proclaim yourself as a kind person, walk this out with me. You can play a great part in it. But mostly boys they just walk away and leave me stranded. Typical. Since you are the most different and most in touch, just do this diferently.
Promise me. Dont make it harder than it already is.

Maybe i just do not know how to handle this kinda emotion. Grow up JC. Grow old.
29 and single. Cuz im too special. Haha. Nothing beat my consistency in singlehood.

Cheers to my still entitled freedom and to a brighter future. And better mate :)